"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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At which point do you call if off with a low IL target?

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1 min.. 5 min... or until she moves from you ?


Okay supppose a girl is lukewarm in her interest to you ...not direct out cold ..but not showing 100 % interest..she still talks to you if you ask her questions but she doesn't talk in detail or isn't completely open in her body language..

Do you still talk to her hoping to change her opinion of you so she may like you in the future or do you just call it quits after 5 mins. and if she hasn't increased her interest level ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How about looking at it from another perspective. You just do the fun and exciting things that you normally do, and she can be along for the ride--to enjoy your energy. Don't try to *create* an opinion in her, or "convince" her to like you. Just be your excellent self, invite her into your reality for a while, and she'll make up her own mind. If she doesn't buy, oh well, someone else will.
 
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Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...
 
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Originally posted by KnightRyder
Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...
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No.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by KnightRyder
Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...
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This advice isn't very realistic. If you feel as though a girl wants to be left alone, it's better to just leave her alone. NEXT!!!!!
 
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Ditto smoke city.

If you are trying to convince someone you are already in the low IL zone so whats the point? The process of "trying to convince" is your demise in this the situation.
 
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good point flexion_ . A Dj should never be not be in a 'bargaining" position but a position where is the one who is the prize.
 
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