"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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At which point do you call if off with a low IL target?

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1 min.. 5 min... or until she moves from you ?


Okay supppose a girl is lukewarm in her interest to you ...not direct out cold ..but not showing 100 % interest..she still talks to you if you ask her questions but she doesn't talk in detail or isn't completely open in her body language..

Do you still talk to her hoping to change her opinion of you so she may like you in the future or do you just call it quits after 5 mins. and if she hasn't increased her interest level ?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How about looking at it from another perspective. You just do the fun and exciting things that you normally do, and she can be along for the ride--to enjoy your energy. Don't try to *create* an opinion in her, or "convince" her to like you. Just be your excellent self, invite her into your reality for a while, and she'll make up her own mind. If she doesn't buy, oh well, someone else will.
 
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Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...
 
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Originally posted by KnightRyder
Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...
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No.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by KnightRyder
Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...
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This advice isn't very realistic. If you feel as though a girl wants to be left alone, it's better to just leave her alone. NEXT!!!!!
 
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Ditto smoke city.

If you are trying to convince someone you are already in the low IL zone so whats the point? The process of "trying to convince" is your demise in this the situation.
 
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good point flexion_ . A Dj should never be not be in a 'bargaining" position but a position where is the one who is the prize.
 
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