At which point do you call if off with a low IL target?

[KnightRyder]

1 min.. 5 min... or until she moves from you ?


Okay supppose a girl is lukewarm in her interest to you ...not direct out cold ..but not showing 100 % interest..she still talks to you if you ask her questions but she doesn't talk in detail or isn't completely open in her body language..

Do you still talk to her hoping to change her opinion of you so she may like you in the future or do you just call it quits after 5 mins. and if she hasn't increased her interest level ?

 

[smoke city]

How about looking at it from another perspective. You just do the fun and exciting things that you normally do, and she can be along for the ride--to enjoy your energy. Don't try to *create* an opinion in her, or "convince" her to like you. Just be your excellent self, invite her into your reality for a while, and she'll make up her own mind. If she doesn't buy, oh well, someone else will.

 

[Interpol]

At whatever point you realize without a doubt that she has low interest.

 

[KnightRyder]

Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...

 

[DJ_Dork]

Originally posted by KnightRyder
Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...

No.

 

[Juan_Man]

Originally posted by KnightRyder
Those are both good opinions both of you. But can you really change a women's low IL simply by going up to her and talking with her...

This advice isn't very realistic. If you feel as though a girl wants to be left alone, it's better to just leave her alone. NEXT!!!!!

 

[flexion_]

Ditto smoke city.

If you are trying to convince someone you are already in the low IL zone so whats the point? The process of "trying to convince" is your demise in this the situation.

 

[KnightRyder]

good point flexion_ . A Dj should never be not be in a 'bargaining" position but a position where is the one who is the prize.