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at what point in the relationship is it suitable to set terms?

pete101

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usually at the beginning of dating someone you can't really say sh1t if she wants to see other guys do what she wants etc, you may not agree with her principles of say if you are in a relationship it's ok to see other people as long as you do not kiss the other guy or go further physically.

to me this is BS cos if she's 'seeing' other guys while in a relationship with me i dont really want to be with her anymore. however if the girl is naive and does not know the difference between right and wrong is there any point in educating her on what is acceptable and what isn't?

and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
 

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pete101 said:
and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
You can't change her personality or beliefs. If her morals isn't the same as yours, next her, or make her an FB. She definitely won't be G/F material if that's what you're looking for.
 

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pete101 said:
usually at the beginning of dating someone you can't really say sh1t if she wants to see other guys do what she wants etc, you may not agree with her principles of say if you are in a relationship it's ok to see other people as long as you do not kiss the other guy or go further physically.

to me this is BS cos if she's 'seeing' other guys while in a relationship with me i dont really want to be with her anymore. however if the girl is naive and does not know the difference between right and wrong is there any point in educating her on what is acceptable and what isn't?

and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
Yeah, this is retarded.. NEVER ask a chick to be in a relationship. EVER. They will let ya know when they want it. You should be doing a fist pump for her to show her how tight it is that you can **** her and not be tied down.
 
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