"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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at what point in the relationship is it suitable to set terms?

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usually at the beginning of dating someone you can't really say sh1t if she wants to see other guys do what she wants etc, you may not agree with her principles of say if you are in a relationship it's ok to see other people as long as you do not kiss the other guy or go further physically.

to me this is BS cos if she's 'seeing' other guys while in a relationship with me i dont really want to be with her anymore. however if the girl is naive and does not know the difference between right and wrong is there any point in educating her on what is acceptable and what isn't?

and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pete101 said:
and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
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You can't change her personality or beliefs. If her morals isn't the same as yours, next her, or make her an FB. She definitely won't be G/F material if that's what you're looking for.
 
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pete101 said:
usually at the beginning of dating someone you can't really say sh1t if she wants to see other guys do what she wants etc, you may not agree with her principles of say if you are in a relationship it's ok to see other people as long as you do not kiss the other guy or go further physically.

to me this is BS cos if she's 'seeing' other guys while in a relationship with me i dont really want to be with her anymore. however if the girl is naive and does not know the difference between right and wrong is there any point in educating her on what is acceptable and what isn't?

and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
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Yeah, this is retarded.. NEVER ask a chick to be in a relationship. EVER. They will let ya know when they want it. You should be doing a fist pump for her to show her how tight it is that you can **** her and not be tied down.
 
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