"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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at what point in the relationship is it suitable to set terms?

pete101

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usually at the beginning of dating someone you can't really say sh1t if she wants to see other guys do what she wants etc, you may not agree with her principles of say if you are in a relationship it's ok to see other people as long as you do not kiss the other guy or go further physically.

to me this is BS cos if she's 'seeing' other guys while in a relationship with me i dont really want to be with her anymore. however if the girl is naive and does not know the difference between right and wrong is there any point in educating her on what is acceptable and what isn't?

and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pete101 said:
and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
You can't change her personality or beliefs. If her morals isn't the same as yours, next her, or make her an FB. She definitely won't be G/F material if that's what you're looking for.
 

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pete101 said:
usually at the beginning of dating someone you can't really say sh1t if she wants to see other guys do what she wants etc, you may not agree with her principles of say if you are in a relationship it's ok to see other people as long as you do not kiss the other guy or go further physically.

to me this is BS cos if she's 'seeing' other guys while in a relationship with me i dont really want to be with her anymore. however if the girl is naive and does not know the difference between right and wrong is there any point in educating her on what is acceptable and what isn't?

and if so, at what point in the relationship should you do this?
Yeah, this is retarded.. NEVER ask a chick to be in a relationship. EVER. They will let ya know when they want it. You should be doing a fist pump for her to show her how tight it is that you can **** her and not be tied down.
 
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