"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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At what age did you lose your virginity and who was she?

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I'm just curious to hear about guy's experiences and if it was good or a letdown or neither and if it was a gf, one night stand or whatever.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well considering a lot of guys find this site because they're whatever age and a virgin, I don't think it's irrelevant.
 
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I'm saying how what difference does other people's devirginizing moment matter to you? It won't help you get any and you can't use their lives as a standard for your own. You could probably find out anyways if you search past threads if it matters.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know if you've ever got laid or are currently getting laid, but it doesn't matter anyway. You either are a virgin or at some point were a virgin. And if you're not, I bet the girl didn't say "Have sex with me" or "F--- me." There was probably some awkward moments leading up to it, unless you went to an escort or something.
 
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You just layed out every possibility of my sex life. It seems like you want to know about losing virginity and the awkwardness at accompanies it. Right? If not you just went on a tangent that is unrelated to who and when.
 
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16 years old me and my buddies ran a train on this biitch one of my friends knew. Never saw her again. It was some crazy **** because at first i had trouble getting up, so my buddies suggested putting crisco on me to get my self up. LOL being the goof troop kid i was back in those days i poured crisco all over my stomach down to my penis.

Definitely a priceless moment in my child hood. I've got so many stories of the goofy guy i used to be. It's quite funny to laugh at yourself from time to time:cool: :p
 
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"It seems like you want to know about losing virginity and the awkwardness at accompanies it. Right?"

Correct.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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2 javanese 25 year old college girls in bali
 
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Alphamale1821 said:
16 years old me and my buddies ran a train on this biitch one of my friends knew. Never saw her again. It was some crazy **** because at first i had trouble getting up, so my buddies suggested putting crisco on me to get my self up. LOL being the goof troop kid i was back in those days i poured crisco all over my stomach down to my penis.

Definitely a priceless moment in my child hood. I've got so many stories of the goofy guy i used to be. It's quite funny to laugh at yourself from time to time:cool: :p
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:rockon: for running trains on b1tches! another :up: for crisco!
 
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I'm just curious to hear about guy's experiences and if it was good or a letdown or neither and if it was a gf, one night stand or whatever.
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I was 31.

It was your Mom.
 
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**** man. i hate javanese ppl
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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19...some random girl......not as good as hyped about...but to be fair....she did absolutely nothing...
 
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In all seriousness our stories about when and with who we lost our V-cards doesn't matter!

I assume you're asking because you are a virgin. Well listen man, no matter what our stories are, yours is probably going to be way different. Maybe younger, maybe older. Maybe she'll be younger or older than the GIRLS we first laid. Doesn't matter. Just go in confident your first time. Maybe not confident in your skills but confident as a man who is gonna learn to to "git r done".
 
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Alphamale1821 said:
16 years old me and my buddies ran a train on this biitch one of my friends knew. Never saw her again. It was some crazy **** because at first i had trouble getting up, so my buddies suggested putting crisco on me to get my self up. LOL being the goof troop kid i was back in those days i poured crisco all over my stomach down to my penis.

Definitely a priceless moment in my child hood. I've got so many stories of the goofy guy i used to be. It's quite funny to laugh at yourself from time to time:cool: :p
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God brings back memories of my old days...lol, this would've probably been the way I lost my virginity if it weren't for my friend. Basically a chick who liked me lived next door to my friend I was 12/13. I rang her doorbell and she came out in some booty shorts, I remember my friend pushing me in there and she closed the door. Were in the hallway and at first I was alittle scared to escalate. (lol) She says I'm the first guy to be in her house and not try anything, she grabs me dik. I tell her to take her bra off so I can see her breast. Then she said I have to doa quickie with her because her mom should be home soon. (It was crazy and fun)

But lately all my brother friends who are like 13-17 they go to one of my old friends and run trains on chicks. I remember one of the 13 year old kids asking my friend to bring some girl to the house so he can try to fuk her.

Brought back memories because before when I was a natural, most of my lays came from running trains. Now though I have a different mindset and would never do it again.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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