"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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At what age did you lose your virginity and who was she?

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I'm just curious to hear about guy's experiences and if it was good or a letdown or neither and if it was a gf, one night stand or whatever.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well considering a lot of guys find this site because they're whatever age and a virgin, I don't think it's irrelevant.
 
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I'm saying how what difference does other people's devirginizing moment matter to you? It won't help you get any and you can't use their lives as a standard for your own. You could probably find out anyways if you search past threads if it matters.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't know if you've ever got laid or are currently getting laid, but it doesn't matter anyway. You either are a virgin or at some point were a virgin. And if you're not, I bet the girl didn't say "Have sex with me" or "F--- me." There was probably some awkward moments leading up to it, unless you went to an escort or something.
 
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You just layed out every possibility of my sex life. It seems like you want to know about losing virginity and the awkwardness at accompanies it. Right? If not you just went on a tangent that is unrelated to who and when.
 
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16 years old me and my buddies ran a train on this biitch one of my friends knew. Never saw her again. It was some crazy **** because at first i had trouble getting up, so my buddies suggested putting crisco on me to get my self up. LOL being the goof troop kid i was back in those days i poured crisco all over my stomach down to my penis.

Definitely a priceless moment in my child hood. I've got so many stories of the goofy guy i used to be. It's quite funny to laugh at yourself from time to time:cool: :p
 
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"It seems like you want to know about losing virginity and the awkwardness at accompanies it. Right?"

Correct.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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2 javanese 25 year old college girls in bali
 
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Alphamale1821 said:
16 years old me and my buddies ran a train on this biitch one of my friends knew. Never saw her again. It was some crazy **** because at first i had trouble getting up, so my buddies suggested putting crisco on me to get my self up. LOL being the goof troop kid i was back in those days i poured crisco all over my stomach down to my penis.

Definitely a priceless moment in my child hood. I've got so many stories of the goofy guy i used to be. It's quite funny to laugh at yourself from time to time:cool: :p
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:rockon: for running trains on b1tches! another :up: for crisco!
 
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I'm just curious to hear about guy's experiences and if it was good or a letdown or neither and if it was a gf, one night stand or whatever.
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I was 31.

It was your Mom.
 
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Dongfu said:
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**** man. i hate javanese ppl
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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19...some random girl......not as good as hyped about...but to be fair....she did absolutely nothing...
 
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In all seriousness our stories about when and with who we lost our V-cards doesn't matter!

I assume you're asking because you are a virgin. Well listen man, no matter what our stories are, yours is probably going to be way different. Maybe younger, maybe older. Maybe she'll be younger or older than the GIRLS we first laid. Doesn't matter. Just go in confident your first time. Maybe not confident in your skills but confident as a man who is gonna learn to to "git r done".
 
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Alphamale1821 said:
16 years old me and my buddies ran a train on this biitch one of my friends knew. Never saw her again. It was some crazy **** because at first i had trouble getting up, so my buddies suggested putting crisco on me to get my self up. LOL being the goof troop kid i was back in those days i poured crisco all over my stomach down to my penis.

Definitely a priceless moment in my child hood. I've got so many stories of the goofy guy i used to be. It's quite funny to laugh at yourself from time to time:cool: :p
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God brings back memories of my old days...lol, this would've probably been the way I lost my virginity if it weren't for my friend. Basically a chick who liked me lived next door to my friend I was 12/13. I rang her doorbell and she came out in some booty shorts, I remember my friend pushing me in there and she closed the door. Were in the hallway and at first I was alittle scared to escalate. (lol) She says I'm the first guy to be in her house and not try anything, she grabs me dik. I tell her to take her bra off so I can see her breast. Then she said I have to doa quickie with her because her mom should be home soon. (It was crazy and fun)

But lately all my brother friends who are like 13-17 they go to one of my old friends and run trains on chicks. I remember one of the 13 year old kids asking my friend to bring some girl to the house so he can try to fuk her.

Brought back memories because before when I was a natural, most of my lays came from running trains. Now though I have a different mindset and would never do it again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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