darkstarrr
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
f u 2. "honk kong" is a place you'll never be able to spill oil. professional proof reader on our hands herekingsam said:what kind of sh.it is this questionaire ?![]()
wheres "honk kong"??
dear kingsam,kingsam said:your question is retarded, where can you find STD free qulity women??
WHY?
there quality women everywhere....
darkstarrr said:I'm finally at a point in my life where I can go anywhere I want on the planet for 2-3 weeks (or more depending on if I decide to move there). I'm versatile with regards to what I can do for work, so that's not a major concern for me. I have a technical background, but I could teach English or open a small business somewhere.. I love travelling and seeing new people, places, and things. So I've decided I'm splitting town.But where to?
In making this decision I've found myself considering what my goals are. My short term goals in life are to go on a vacation of course, and RELAX - which falls under the umbrella of travelling as I described it above. My longer term goals are to accomplish more in life professionally, and through personal growth, self awareness, and the endless pursuit of engaging in self actualization. For many of us, this forum inevitably serves a tacit role in guiding us toward becoming better men. I suppose it could be considered some form of a digression then, for me to step aside from all that and get back to what brought me here in the first place: WOMEN!
One of my long term goals is to have children. I'd like to have a few before I'm 40, so that I'll be under 60 still when they turn 20. There's no major pressure or rush for this. It's just how I would prefer it. It's just what I want. Moreover, It'd be nice to have a person in my life with whom I can travel the world and share great times/experiences with.
I find myself looking at women with a more qualifying eye these days. I've gradually found myself adoring wholesome qualities in women more and more.
Bottom line - I'm just sick of the bullshit that I hear about day in and day out, that I've experienced myself - from western(ized) women. I'm still moderately young, good looking, in shape, and successful.
I'm getting the fuck out of here for a little while to see some new places, new things, and best of all --> different kinds of women from what the general trend is here.
On a more serious note, I've explored the idea of arranged marriages and mail order brides. Perhaps its true that, contrary to the statistics, it's just not the best idea.
I'm not interested in excessive partying these days. I attended one of the top party universities in my country and I have enough years of booze, clubbing, bars, sororities, hangovers, etc under my belt. Its just not condusive to much or constructive for me anymore. I still get out there from time to time, don't worry.And with one of my long term goals being to have children, I wouldn't want to meet the future mother of my children in a bar or club.
While I have the opportunity to do so, I just want to go somewhere far away from here for a while and experience a different perspective on some of the things I've mentioned.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.