"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh man i saw this hot chick today at check out right and i looked at her a few times and then i saw glanced over at me when i looked she looked away maybe scared or something anyway.

I cudnt think of somehting u cud say 2 somone whilst there busy she was amazing face decent body not fat or anything. Whats your take in them kind of environment when i get a car im going to that same place and getting a no. damn it PEACE PEOPLE
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Skilla_Staz said:
Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there
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wowww i didnt read it.. but clever... are you 100% sure shes gonig to reply exactly in those words?

what if she doesnt.

dude jsut go with the flow but dont say anything retarded.
 
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I'm pretty sure she won't reply exactly in that manner, but, if she doesn't then I can easily go with the flow. I'm pretty quick witted have have very little problem in pulling out stuff to small chat about.

And if they're employees, the "looking for a skirt?" part may not work, however, the "help me pick something out" should.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you should of went out with her then. time constraints, will cause her to forget about you next time you call her.
 
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Who should've went out with who?

He was asking how he should've approached it. As far as I know, he didn't get a number, didn't call her, etc.
 
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Skilla_Staz said:
Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there
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