“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oh man i saw this hot chick today at check out right and i looked at her a few times and then i saw glanced over at me when i looked she looked away maybe scared or something anyway.

I cudnt think of somehting u cud say 2 somone whilst there busy she was amazing face decent body not fat or anything. Whats your take in them kind of environment when i get a car im going to that same place and getting a no. damn it PEACE PEOPLE
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there

wowww i didnt read it.. but clever... are you 100% sure shes gonig to reply exactly in those words?

what if she doesnt.

dude jsut go with the flow but dont say anything retarded.
 

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I'm pretty sure she won't reply exactly in that manner, but, if she doesn't then I can easily go with the flow. I'm pretty quick witted have have very little problem in pulling out stuff to small chat about.

And if they're employees, the "looking for a skirt?" part may not work, however, the "help me pick something out" should.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you should of went out with her then. time constraints, will cause her to forget about you next time you call her.
 

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Who should've went out with who?

He was asking how he should've approached it. As far as I know, he didn't get a number, didn't call her, etc.
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there
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