"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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At Department Stores

LegendBoy

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Oh man i saw this hot chick today at check out right and i looked at her a few times and then i saw glanced over at me when i looked she looked away maybe scared or something anyway.

I cudnt think of somehting u cud say 2 somone whilst there busy she was amazing face decent body not fat or anything. Whats your take in them kind of environment when i get a car im going to that same place and getting a no. damn it PEACE PEOPLE
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Skilla_Staz

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Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Skilla_Staz said:
Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there

wowww i didnt read it.. but clever... are you 100% sure shes gonig to reply exactly in those words?

what if she doesnt.

dude jsut go with the flow but dont say anything retarded.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I'm pretty sure she won't reply exactly in that manner, but, if she doesn't then I can easily go with the flow. I'm pretty quick witted have have very little problem in pulling out stuff to small chat about.

And if they're employees, the "looking for a skirt?" part may not work, however, the "help me pick something out" should.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rocco

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you should of went out with her then. time constraints, will cause her to forget about you next time you call her.
 

Skilla_Staz

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Who should've went out with who?

He was asking how he should've approached it. As far as I know, he didn't get a number, didn't call her, etc.
 

Mitch_Mustain

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Skilla_Staz said:
Always start with "Hey"

Then, if she was looking at a certain article of clothing, comment on it.

Example:

Me: Heyyy (smile)
Her: Hi
Me: Checkin out some skirts huh?
Her: Yeah, gotta get some cute ones for summer
Me: You know, every man loves a girl in a skirt, but you know what I think is even better?
Her: haha Whats that?
Me: A girl in a classy skirt. You kinda strike me as a classy lady
Her: Oh really now?
Me: Yes, as a matter of fact, you do. I happen to be working on being a classy kind of guy, so I've got an invitation for ya...
Her: What kind of invitation?
Me: Well, obviously I'm here doing a little shopping, and I need a female opinion on a few things, so I figured you could help me out a bit. (wink)
Her: ha I suppose I could do that
Me: I knew you'd be down for that, who knows, maybe I could help you pick out some classy clothes, that way you could toss together an outfit the next time we get together
Her: Hmm. Sounds like a good idea, and when exactly are we getting together?
Me: Oh thats a suprise.
Her: Mmm. I like suprises.
Me: Haha I bet you do. (check watch or cell phone or osmething with the time on it)Oooh. Bummer.
Her: Ooh bummer what?
Me: I told a friend I'd meet him 15 minutes ago, I hate bein late. Hey, you should write your # down, and I'll give you a call about this whole, shopping thing (wink again)
Her: Awww, well thats not a bad idea


BAM. Number.

Keep it going from there
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