"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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At a bar earlier tofay

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i go to the same during the day once a week, so I basically know everyone that works there. So, today I sat where I usually sit and this new cute bartender chick came to me and asked me if I wanted something drink. I order it and she appeared nervous, so I asked why she was nervous and she reacted by covering of her face with the food menu but her response was that “it was her first day at the job”, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. But another dude asked her how long she had been working at the bar and she said for a week, so I thought that she may be interested in me. As time went by and talking my buddy, I would notice that she’s make the effort to pass by us and she would smile and act nervous when looking at me, so I asked for a second drink and she poured three times as much. 20 minutes later she comes back and asked if we needed something else, so I told her that I wanted her phone number so I can take her out and her response was “sorry, I can’t give out my phone number because there are cameras everywhere, but you can write your phone number on this piece of paper”, all this interaction with her having a big smile. So I asked for the check and gave her my phone number and told her to call me.

From my experience, her interest level was really high give her smile, finding a reason to be around me and flirting. What do you. guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obviously whether or not she gets in contact with you would be the key indicator.

I got a bartenders number from Tilted Kilt one time, so I'm not sure if that's a real rule. I know Hooters girls who married and had kids with guys they met while working.
 

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Hard to tell. Might be interested, might be looking for a good tip or repeat customers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is not even thread worthy.
 

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So basically her calling him or not has the power to make Op either a daddy or a sucker turned into tip paying regular.

Not saying that to bash op ofc, hope he gets the girl, just to show how much power a woman can get by simple actions that require no skill or ability.
 
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So basically her calling him or not has the power to make Op either a daddy or a sucker turned into tip paying regular.

Not saying that to bash op ofc, hope he gets the girl, just to show how much power a woman can get by simple actions that require no skill or ability.
Especially when she's 99% likely to be a dumb b1tch with 3 brain cells and an attention span shorter than a dogs.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She ended up calling me and I smashed last night
 

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This is not even thread worthy.
It's a genuine story by a genuine guy trying to hit on a chick. That's at least one big step better than "Hey guys, I paid money to f*ck a girl! Tell me what a hardass I am!"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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