"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
At 93, he’s as fit as a 40-year-old. His body offers lessons on aging.
- Thread starter Pierce Manhammer
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Surprised to see just a normal looking gentleman. Thought it was going to be a click bait roided out dude with a gray beard pretending to be older than he is.
Muscle mass is the fountain of youth boys. (not roided out kill your heart shvt but natural muscle)
Muscle mass is the fountain of youth boys. (not roided out kill your heart shvt but natural muscle)
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Pierce,
Good post....I was surprised to see that the Guy spent most of his life as a Baker and a Battery Maker....Neither profession does well on the longevity stakes...Flour gets into your lungs and throat causes big problems,batteries were Sulphuric Acid and lead!!!....Not much muscle mass,wiry as a Greyhound....Agree very much with Hanoi Jane that longevity is very much a reflection of Genes and Money I would add and moderation in all things.
Pierce Manhammer
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There’s some truth in what is said about having the physique of a canyon runner, as far as longevity is concerned.
I do, however have a question for you sir:
Do you do the fandango?
I do, however have a question for you sir:
Do you do the fandango?
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Galileo?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.