"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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crossboss

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I always assume with girls. The problem is that when I think things are going good, I just assume.

What kind of mind set, tricks work?

I just don't get how to do it. Please help me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Simple if she has a level of interest you will know. You work from there but it is up to us DJ to make that level of interest first.
 
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I guess I wasn't being clear.

The question is how to not assume with girls. This happens particularily when I do have level of interest with girls. Then I assume that's what it will always be like this.

So how to I prevent myself from assuming. What happens is that she is interested, then as soon as I assume the interest goes away. Then when I don't assume, it comes back, usually.
 
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