"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Assumptions

crossboss

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I always assume with girls. The problem is that when I think things are going good, I just assume.

What kind of mind set, tricks work?

I just don't get how to do it. Please help me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blinkwatt

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Simple if she has a level of interest you will know. You work from there but it is up to us DJ to make that level of interest first.
 

crossboss

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I guess I wasn't being clear.

The question is how to not assume with girls. This happens particularily when I do have level of interest with girls. Then I assume that's what it will always be like this.

So how to I prevent myself from assuming. What happens is that she is interested, then as soon as I assume the interest goes away. Then when I don't assume, it comes back, usually.
 
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