"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Assumptions

crossboss

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I always assume with girls. The problem is that when I think things are going good, I just assume.

What kind of mind set, tricks work?

I just don't get how to do it. Please help me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blinkwatt

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Simple if she has a level of interest you will know. You work from there but it is up to us DJ to make that level of interest first.
 

crossboss

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I guess I wasn't being clear.

The question is how to not assume with girls. This happens particularily when I do have level of interest with girls. Then I assume that's what it will always be like this.

So how to I prevent myself from assuming. What happens is that she is interested, then as soon as I assume the interest goes away. Then when I don't assume, it comes back, usually.
 
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