"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I always assume with girls. The problem is that when I think things are going good, I just assume.

What kind of mind set, tricks work?

I just don't get how to do it. Please help me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Simple if she has a level of interest you will know. You work from there but it is up to us DJ to make that level of interest first.
 
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I guess I wasn't being clear.

The question is how to not assume with girls. This happens particularily when I do have level of interest with girls. Then I assume that's what it will always be like this.

So how to I prevent myself from assuming. What happens is that she is interested, then as soon as I assume the interest goes away. Then when I don't assume, it comes back, usually.
 
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