"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Asking Who She's With

Fela Kuti

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Just wanna ask your opinion. Say, your girl texts or calls you, and she tells that she's having a lunch or watching a movie. Do you think it's an insecure thing to ask who she's with, everytime she tells you that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JDA70

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Do you feel insecure?
That maybe shes with some guy?
Are you nosy?
 

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why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"
 

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nah, she doesn't really have a point of informing me that. she just likes to tell me what she's doing everyday. but sometimes i'm just curious who she's with. it maybe some guy or something..
 

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Don't ask. I think you already know it's an insecure thing to do, or you wouldn't have made this topic :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fela Kuti

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dav22 said:
Don't ask. I think you already know it's an insecure thing to do, or you wouldn't have made this topic :p
Yeah, that's why i don't (rarely) ask, although i'm dying to know :crazy: Just wanna ask you guys' opinion here.
 

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skirtChaser said:
why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"

That says I don't care.

Instead tell her to have a great time and enjoy her self.
 

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skirtChaser said:
why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"
yeah, that's too cruel i think.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
.... Do you think it's an insecure thing to ask who she's with, everytime she tells you that?
Why wouldn't it?
 

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once in awhile is ok, all the time will make it seem like you're trying to put her on lockdown

just remember if she was with another dude she was feeling more than you, either the vibe would wierd or she wouldn't pick up her phone in the first place
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You could change the subject, making sure not to ask who she's with.

Be like "Thats nice (this works because its pretty dismissive)."

Then say "How's your day going?" because it shows you care, but at the same time you don't seem too insecure or too cruel.
 
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