“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Asking Who She's With

Fela Kuti

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Just wanna ask your opinion. Say, your girl texts or calls you, and she tells that she's having a lunch or watching a movie. Do you think it's an insecure thing to ask who she's with, everytime she tells you that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JDA70

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Do you feel insecure?
That maybe shes with some guy?
Are you nosy?
 

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why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"
 

Fela Kuti

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nah, she doesn't really have a point of informing me that. she just likes to tell me what she's doing everyday. but sometimes i'm just curious who she's with. it maybe some guy or something..
 

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Don't ask. I think you already know it's an insecure thing to do, or you wouldn't have made this topic :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fela Kuti

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dav22 said:
Don't ask. I think you already know it's an insecure thing to do, or you wouldn't have made this topic :p
Yeah, that's why i don't (rarely) ask, although i'm dying to know :crazy: Just wanna ask you guys' opinion here.
 

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skirtChaser said:
why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"

That says I don't care.

Instead tell her to have a great time and enjoy her self.
 

Fela Kuti

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skirtChaser said:
why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"
yeah, that's too cruel i think.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
.... Do you think it's an insecure thing to ask who she's with, everytime she tells you that?
Why wouldn't it?
 

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once in awhile is ok, all the time will make it seem like you're trying to put her on lockdown

just remember if she was with another dude she was feeling more than you, either the vibe would wierd or she wouldn't pick up her phone in the first place
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You could change the subject, making sure not to ask who she's with.

Be like "Thats nice (this works because its pretty dismissive)."

Then say "How's your day going?" because it shows you care, but at the same time you don't seem too insecure or too cruel.
 
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