"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking Who She's With

Fela Kuti

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Just wanna ask your opinion. Say, your girl texts or calls you, and she tells that she's having a lunch or watching a movie. Do you think it's an insecure thing to ask who she's with, everytime she tells you that?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JDA70

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Do you feel insecure?
That maybe shes with some guy?
Are you nosy?
 

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why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"
 

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nah, she doesn't really have a point of informing me that. she just likes to tell me what she's doing everyday. but sometimes i'm just curious who she's with. it maybe some guy or something..
 

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Don't ask. I think you already know it's an insecure thing to do, or you wouldn't have made this topic :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Fela Kuti

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dav22 said:
Don't ask. I think you already know it's an insecure thing to do, or you wouldn't have made this topic :p
Yeah, that's why i don't (rarely) ask, although i'm dying to know :crazy: Just wanna ask you guys' opinion here.
 

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skirtChaser said:
why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"

That says I don't care.

Instead tell her to have a great time and enjoy her self.
 

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skirtChaser said:
why would you care?..........just text respond with ...."and your point is?" or "great...I'm tied up, call me in a couple of days, enjoy the movie"
yeah, that's too cruel i think.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
.... Do you think it's an insecure thing to ask who she's with, everytime she tells you that?
Why wouldn't it?
 

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once in awhile is ok, all the time will make it seem like you're trying to put her on lockdown

just remember if she was with another dude she was feeling more than you, either the vibe would wierd or she wouldn't pick up her phone in the first place
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You could change the subject, making sure not to ask who she's with.

Be like "Thats nice (this works because its pretty dismissive)."

Then say "How's your day going?" because it shows you care, but at the same time you don't seem too insecure or too cruel.
 
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