When im gonna ask a girl to a prom, should i just start a convo , then ask , or just walk straight up and ask. Walking straigh up and ask kinda seems awkward to me, and i dont how to start a convo that will lead into prom. plz help.
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Asking to Prom
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You're probably a shy guy so what I would do if I were you: go up to her and say something like "Hey, what's up *girls name*. Can I talk to you for a minute?"
Then just pull her aside to a more private spot so you don't feel nervous around her friends (but don't go too far...) and ask. Search the site or the DJ Bible for ways to ask if you need help on that...
Then just pull her aside to a more private spot so you don't feel nervous around her friends (but don't go too far...) and ask. Search the site or the DJ Bible for ways to ask if you need help on that...
What is the best way to ask to prom without seeming needy/wussy/ and to keep the power? When you ask a girl something like "will you go out with me/marry me/" you give them the power and hand them your balls and they can smash them easily. How can this be done and still seem powerful? This isn't a normal date thing. You can really say "I'm going to prom, you should come" its different.
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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
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Just be like "So who you goin to prom with?", or some variation of that, if they say no one yet, they'll then most likely ask who you're going with. You follow up with "Yea I haven't asked anyone yet either. How bout you and I go together?" or just "Yea same her, you wanna go with me then?". Anything like that will work, just say it in a real casual way like you don't care what she says and it's almost an offhand thing. Act like you're only asking her to go cause you were on the subject of prom. It's debateable whether or not that will improve your chances of her saying yes, but if she says no (most will not though if they know you and don't have a particular person in mind) it will make it much less awkward.
BTW, for a prom at the end of May, around when should I start looking to ask a girl? I'm a junior and haven't been before so I'm not sure when you're supposed to ask.
BTW, for a prom at the end of May, around when should I start looking to ask a girl? I'm a junior and haven't been before so I'm not sure when you're supposed to ask.
Is it better to ask in person, or over the phone? I might not be able to do it over the phone, from being busy already. But in person I can use body language and kino to help. If I wait too long all of them will get taken.
TonyTheTigerOI
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Does anyone else see a problem with asking a random girl you havent dated to prom?
MetalFortress
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That was easy enough to understand, you turd. Why are you even a mod?
Anyways to the original poster, I simply just ask "do you want to go to prom with me". Might not work that easily on a random chick, but I'd ask a girl I know already.
Maeisgood: there is nothing wussy about just asking. If you stutter and stammer, it's wussy, but if you ask it in a confident tone, no problems.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
TonyTheTigerOI
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Maybe ive been brainwashed by collegiate society... but inviting someone to a black tie event out of the blue doesnt seem right. I really want some opinions on this, too.
It is a well known fact that even fat kids **** their prom dates... so when a girl gets asked by a DJ she is agreeing, at least to the idea, of sex. So shouldnt you wait till youve been on a good date with a kiss close to ask a girl to prom?
It is a well known fact that even fat kids **** their prom dates... so when a girl gets asked by a DJ she is agreeing, at least to the idea, of sex. So shouldnt you wait till youve been on a good date with a kiss close to ask a girl to prom?
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You don't need to have gone on a date with the girl to ask her to prom. Just ask a girl you know, she can be a good friend, or just an acquaintance (but not just some random girl you don't really even know).
And not everybody f*cks on prom night. I think that's more a cliche than reality. It really depends on how into you the girl is, how far she's been/is willing to go, and how much alcohol she's had.
And not everybody f*cks on prom night. I think that's more a cliche than reality. It really depends on how into you the girl is, how far she's been/is willing to go, and how much alcohol she's had.
TonyTheTigerOI
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<---------- this guys having sex on prom night, fyi =)
Lol... I dont wanna take "some random girl" I want to **** a really beautiful, intelligent, fun girl. This is gonna take some work, eh?
Lol... I dont wanna take "some random girl" I want to **** a really beautiful, intelligent, fun girl. This is gonna take some work, eh?
DJmike
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If a girl is interested in you she may bring it up in a conversations ie;"so whop are you taking to prom" or "are you going to prom" i'llpost the conversation i had on yahoo messenger when i got my prom date. this was a girl I've know for a while-shes probably an hb8-
her-"you going to prom?"
me-"No idea...don't have a date yet."
her-"got anyone in mind?"
me-"not really just anyone who wants to go"( i say this becuase i know she wants me to ask her)
her-"I wanna go but I doubt anyone would ask me"(if that wasnt a hint I dont know what is)
me-"are you trying to hint at somthing"
her-"what? i dont understand"(she's acting dumb as you can see)
me-"if you want me to ask you just let me know, because I will definatley go with you"(becuase shes really hot)
I wasnt going to ask her until then because she has a man right now and i didnt want to intrude on a relationship. hopefully they arent going out at prom time.. lol she will have a crazy night.
her-"you going to prom?"
me-"No idea...don't have a date yet."
her-"got anyone in mind?"
me-"not really just anyone who wants to go"( i say this becuase i know she wants me to ask her)
her-"I wanna go but I doubt anyone would ask me"(if that wasnt a hint I dont know what is)
me-"are you trying to hint at somthing"
her-"what? i dont understand"(she's acting dumb as you can see)
me-"if you want me to ask you just let me know, because I will definatley go with you"(becuase shes really hot)
I wasnt going to ask her until then because she has a man right now and i didnt want to intrude on a relationship. hopefully they arent going out at prom time.. lol she will have a crazy night.
California Love
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If you are not confident that you have the girl's interest yet, do NOT start out a convo about prom. Talk about something positive that builds GREAT rapport (a meaningful convo) and then bring up prom. She'll be in that positive, lovey-dovey mindset when you hit her with the question. Therefore, you will get the best response possible.
If she likes you already, by all means just ask when appropriate.
If she likes you already, by all means just ask when appropriate.
Good advice.
What if the girl declares before you get a chance to ask that she does not want to go to prom? Is this one of those test/challenges girls have or something? I was thinking of saying something like "oh, I like challenges." There is another who said that if I asked her, she'd go with me but there's one who doesn't have a boyfriend who isn't nasty I want to go with.
Oni, did she say yes?
What if the girl declares before you get a chance to ask that she does not want to go to prom? Is this one of those test/challenges girls have or something? I was thinking of saying something like "oh, I like challenges." There is another who said that if I asked her, she'd go with me but there's one who doesn't have a boyfriend who isn't nasty I want to go with.
Oni, did she say yes?