"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Asking to Prom

Void

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Originally posted by Vincent
English mother f*cker, do you speak it?
Haha...that's hilarious.

Ask in person, start a conversation. About five minutes into it ask "Are you going to prom?". If she says yes, then say "Would you like to go with me?" Don't rush it though. If you start talking about something else, then just wait until the oppurtunity arises. Just make sure you close.
I don't remember where I saw this, "Always Be Closing." That's a great quote.
-Good luck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oni

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Ok, so u know how the girl i asked said shes not going to the prom? Well lately, shes been bringing the topic up again. And she even asked me if im going to the prom. Now im really confused cuz i ono if i should ask again or not because i dont know why shes bringing the topic up again.
 

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and i heard some guys are gonna ask her to the prom so im kinda worried. i dont wanna ask her again after she had told me shes not going but what if she changed her mind.
 
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