“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Asking to Become Exclusive: Always her job?

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A lot of people say that Don Juans should never ask to be exclusive, and that we should just wait until they ask. In my experience, girls always wait for me to ask to become exclusive because they believe its the guy's role to lead the relationship. Question is: Is it ALWAYS her job or are guys sometimes expected to initiate exclusivity? In the event I actually want a relationship, its annoying having to wait for HER to make a move; i feel like a chick.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If she's not asking, she's not interested enough. You as the man should be expected to be able to control yourself.
 
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mrRuckus said:
If she's not asking, she's not interested enough. You as the man should be expected to be able to control yourself.
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I disagree. I have had several girls tell me that they were waiting for me to ask to become exclusive, once I got tired of waiting and did it myself.
 
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If you're a Don Juan, you do what you want. So if you want to be exclusive, just ask. Many Don Juan choose to practice their skills and keep improving and improving, so in that case you wouldn't want to be tied down by a relationship. If the girl is obviously attracted to you, then there's no problem with asking her to be exclusive. If you're not sure about her level of attraction though, you have two options. Ask her, find out where you two stand, and either become exclusive or move on. The other option is to run some of your game on her and increase her attraction to you. They both work in theory.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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