“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Asking to Become Exclusive: Always her job?

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A lot of people say that Don Juans should never ask to be exclusive, and that we should just wait until they ask. In my experience, girls always wait for me to ask to become exclusive because they believe its the guy's role to lead the relationship. Question is: Is it ALWAYS her job or are guys sometimes expected to initiate exclusivity? In the event I actually want a relationship, its annoying having to wait for HER to make a move; i feel like a chick.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If she's not asking, she's not interested enough. You as the man should be expected to be able to control yourself.
 
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mrRuckus said:
If she's not asking, she's not interested enough. You as the man should be expected to be able to control yourself.
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I disagree. I have had several girls tell me that they were waiting for me to ask to become exclusive, once I got tired of waiting and did it myself.
 
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If you're a Don Juan, you do what you want. So if you want to be exclusive, just ask. Many Don Juan choose to practice their skills and keep improving and improving, so in that case you wouldn't want to be tied down by a relationship. If the girl is obviously attracted to you, then there's no problem with asking her to be exclusive. If you're not sure about her level of attraction though, you have two options. Ask her, find out where you two stand, and either become exclusive or move on. The other option is to run some of your game on her and increase her attraction to you. They both work in theory.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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