"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking to Become Exclusive: Always her job?

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A lot of people say that Don Juans should never ask to be exclusive, and that we should just wait until they ask. In my experience, girls always wait for me to ask to become exclusive because they believe its the guy's role to lead the relationship. Question is: Is it ALWAYS her job or are guys sometimes expected to initiate exclusivity? In the event I actually want a relationship, its annoying having to wait for HER to make a move; i feel like a chick.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If she's not asking, she's not interested enough. You as the man should be expected to be able to control yourself.
 
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mrRuckus said:
If she's not asking, she's not interested enough. You as the man should be expected to be able to control yourself.
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I disagree. I have had several girls tell me that they were waiting for me to ask to become exclusive, once I got tired of waiting and did it myself.
 
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If you're a Don Juan, you do what you want. So if you want to be exclusive, just ask. Many Don Juan choose to practice their skills and keep improving and improving, so in that case you wouldn't want to be tied down by a relationship. If the girl is obviously attracted to you, then there's no problem with asking her to be exclusive. If you're not sure about her level of attraction though, you have two options. Ask her, find out where you two stand, and either become exclusive or move on. The other option is to run some of your game on her and increase her attraction to you. They both work in theory.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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