"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asking somebody out

Enigma2517

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This chick in my class is totally into me and I'm gonna ask her out tomorrow before class starts. Not that it probably matters too much at this point but how should I do it? I've got like 5 minutes to talk to her. Should I
a.) say hey and pretty much skip right to business
b.) time it so asking her out is the last thing I say before we have to go to our seats
c.) something inbetween those two

And how exactly do u lead into that question? I can't just be like so how was ur soccer game btw want to go out.

I've already got some ideas but I just wanted to know what u all think. Peace
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vincent

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Why don't you just get her phone # and ask her out like that?
 

LikRetsam

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Hey whats up what are ya doing? You wanna go _____ tonight?
 

jonny football hero

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Jesus............how many times do i have to answer this question?

"hey, i'm going to !place! tonight, you ought to tag along, i'll fetch you around 7"

if she says no...........

"oh well, i'll just have to get another of my women to come, we'll have fun in your honour"
 
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