"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking somebody out

Enigma2517

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This chick in my class is totally into me and I'm gonna ask her out tomorrow before class starts. Not that it probably matters too much at this point but how should I do it? I've got like 5 minutes to talk to her. Should I
a.) say hey and pretty much skip right to business
b.) time it so asking her out is the last thing I say before we have to go to our seats
c.) something inbetween those two

And how exactly do u lead into that question? I can't just be like so how was ur soccer game btw want to go out.

I've already got some ideas but I just wanted to know what u all think. Peace
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vincent

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Why don't you just get her phone # and ask her out like that?
 

LikRetsam

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Hey whats up what are ya doing? You wanna go _____ tonight?
 

jonny football hero

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Jesus............how many times do i have to answer this question?

"hey, i'm going to !place! tonight, you ought to tag along, i'll fetch you around 7"

if she says no...........

"oh well, i'll just have to get another of my women to come, we'll have fun in your honour"
 
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