"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i remember reading an article or a post awhile ago about the best way to ask a chick out... I want to go out with this girl who i hooked up with on new years, except we havent hung out since then, we were suppose to hang out today but she got sick. Anyway do u guys know any links to articles about starting LTR's cause that is what i am looking for as of now, Thanks alot
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i did a search nothing comes up
 

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Sweet! Thanks for nothing guys haha, but its all good cause i hooked up with her again tonight. She deffinately digs me more then i thought i know she would say yes if i asked her out now im mad confident shes sooo damn hot too. So i guess im just gonna devote this post to Sosuave because a year ago i could only dream of hooking up with the hottest chicks in school now they dream of hooking up with me haha PROPS AND THANKS to the masters and the bible
 

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:crackup: , funny how the people with the least advice get the most help, yet the people with the most advice...don't get any help.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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