"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i remember reading an article or a post awhile ago about the best way to ask a chick out... I want to go out with this girl who i hooked up with on new years, except we havent hung out since then, we were suppose to hang out today but she got sick. Anyway do u guys know any links to articles about starting LTR's cause that is what i am looking for as of now, Thanks alot
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i did a search nothing comes up
 

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Sweet! Thanks for nothing guys haha, but its all good cause i hooked up with her again tonight. She deffinately digs me more then i thought i know she would say yes if i asked her out now im mad confident shes sooo damn hot too. So i guess im just gonna devote this post to Sosuave because a year ago i could only dream of hooking up with the hottest chicks in school now they dream of hooking up with me haha PROPS AND THANKS to the masters and the bible
 

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:crackup: , funny how the people with the least advice get the most help, yet the people with the most advice...don't get any help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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