"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i remember reading an article or a post awhile ago about the best way to ask a chick out... I want to go out with this girl who i hooked up with on new years, except we havent hung out since then, we were suppose to hang out today but she got sick. Anyway do u guys know any links to articles about starting LTR's cause that is what i am looking for as of now, Thanks alot
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i did a search nothing comes up
 
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Sweet! Thanks for nothing guys haha, but its all good cause i hooked up with her again tonight. She deffinately digs me more then i thought i know she would say yes if i asked her out now im mad confident shes sooo damn hot too. So i guess im just gonna devote this post to Sosuave because a year ago i could only dream of hooking up with the hottest chicks in school now they dream of hooking up with me haha PROPS AND THANKS to the masters and the bible
 
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:crackup: , funny how the people with the least advice get the most help, yet the people with the most advice...don't get any help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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