"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Asking out in person vs telephone...

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Setting up dates are good over the phone.

Asking a girl to be your girlfriend should ONLY be done in person!!!!!!!!!!!

-GDJ
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Yes, nothing wrong with setting the "get together" over the phone. Depends on the situation, but neither.

Now, as far as "asking a girl to be your girlfriend", it should be done over IM, or better yet, over text message on your cellular phone.

Actually, kissing her, getting her interest level very high, and having her be the one who asks you to be exclusive is always the ideal situation to find yourself in. Avoid having to "ask her to be your girlfriend" if possible; only if you really need to, and yes, in person only. Then again, that's an entire different thread.
 
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