"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asking out in person vs telephone...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Setting up dates are good over the phone.

Asking a girl to be your girlfriend should ONLY be done in person!!!!!!!!!!!

-GDJ
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Yes, nothing wrong with setting the "get together" over the phone. Depends on the situation, but neither.

Now, as far as "asking a girl to be your girlfriend", it should be done over IM, or better yet, over text message on your cellular phone.

Actually, kissing her, getting her interest level very high, and having her be the one who asks you to be exclusive is always the ideal situation to find yourself in. Avoid having to "ask her to be your girlfriend" if possible; only if you really need to, and yes, in person only. Then again, that's an entire different thread.
 
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