"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asking out in person vs telephone...

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Setting up dates are good over the phone.

Asking a girl to be your girlfriend should ONLY be done in person!!!!!!!!!!!

-GDJ
Yes, nothing wrong with setting the "get together" over the phone. Depends on the situation, but neither.

Now, as far as "asking a girl to be your girlfriend", it should be done over IM, or better yet, over text message on your cellular phone.

Actually, kissing her, getting her interest level very high, and having her be the one who asks you to be exclusive is always the ideal situation to find yourself in. Avoid having to "ask her to be your girlfriend" if possible; only if you really need to, and yes, in person only. Then again, that's an entire different thread.
 
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