Asking how much a woman earns. Pathetic or not?

[Sal]

Do you dudes go out with chicks and ask how much they earn or google their profession and pick the highest paid and then say you're dating a chick that makes 400k a year?

Or do you date them once and they tell you they're a hedge fund manager, you just run with it and tell your friends you're dating a hedge fund manager and toss out the highest pay for one and say yeah she makes 500k or more a year?

 

[Billtx49]

Your post is a guessing game and asking her what she earns makes you look like a male gold digger, bum, or burger flipper. This topic signals low class.
Other issues concerning her are of much higher importance to you.

 

[RedScorpion]

I would only generally be concerned with what their job or career is, rather than any numbers at all. Personally, I'm preferring a skill level that is above completing high school, i.e. college or university level (or equivalent) - or has the ambition/moving towards that. Such as I know a girl who's more into property development (from family business). Essentially looking for that forward thinking and intelligence in a girl. If you tell your friends anything, I'd opinion that you can say what she does and leave them to guess to it for money. Direct income isn't a huge enough factor to talk about I think.

I agree with what billtx49 has said.

 

[ImJustaGirl]

Not only is asking someone their income classless, it makes the person asking the question look stupid and poor on several levels.
There are people who are so heavily in debt that they would make you WISH you were dating a burger-flipper lol (burger-flipper credit is finite, high income credit is infinite)