"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asking how much a woman earns. Pathetic or not?

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Do you dudes go out with chicks and ask how much they earn or google their profession and pick the highest paid and then say you're dating a chick that makes 400k a year?

Or do you date them once and they tell you they're a hedge fund manager, you just run with it and tell your friends you're dating a hedge fund manager and toss out the highest pay for one and say yeah she makes 500k or more a year?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your post is a guessing game and asking her what she earns makes you look like a male gold digger, bum, or burger flipper. This topic signals low class.
Other issues concerning her are of much higher importance to you.
 
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I would only generally be concerned with what their job or career is, rather than any numbers at all. Personally, I'm preferring a skill level that is above completing high school, i.e. college or university level (or equivalent) - or has the ambition/moving towards that. Such as I know a girl who's more into property development (from family business). Essentially looking for that forward thinking and intelligence in a girl. If you tell your friends anything, I'd opinion that you can say what she does and leave them to guess to it for money. Direct income isn't a huge enough factor to talk about I think.

I agree with what billtx49 has said.
 
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Not only is asking someone their income classless, it makes the person asking the question look stupid and poor on several levels.
There are people who are so heavily in debt that they would make you WISH you were dating a burger-flipper lol (burger-flipper credit is finite, high income credit is infinite)
 
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