"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Asking how much a woman earns. Pathetic or not?

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Do you dudes go out with chicks and ask how much they earn or google their profession and pick the highest paid and then say you're dating a chick that makes 400k a year?

Or do you date them once and they tell you they're a hedge fund manager, you just run with it and tell your friends you're dating a hedge fund manager and toss out the highest pay for one and say yeah she makes 500k or more a year?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your post is a guessing game and asking her what she earns makes you look like a male gold digger, bum, or burger flipper. This topic signals low class.
Other issues concerning her are of much higher importance to you.
 
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I would only generally be concerned with what their job or career is, rather than any numbers at all. Personally, I'm preferring a skill level that is above completing high school, i.e. college or university level (or equivalent) - or has the ambition/moving towards that. Such as I know a girl who's more into property development (from family business). Essentially looking for that forward thinking and intelligence in a girl. If you tell your friends anything, I'd opinion that you can say what she does and leave them to guess to it for money. Direct income isn't a huge enough factor to talk about I think.

I agree with what billtx49 has said.
 
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Not only is asking someone their income classless, it makes the person asking the question look stupid and poor on several levels.
There are people who are so heavily in debt that they would make you WISH you were dating a burger-flipper lol (burger-flipper credit is finite, high income credit is infinite)
 
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