"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Asking her over on the first date

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B/w work an school, i barely have anytime to go on a date other than after work. My weekends are booked the next two weekend due to the opening of hunting season. I was gonna ask her to come sit on her ass with me at my place after work. Would that be too forward for a first date?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Unless you've established mad mutual rapport with the woman, slow your roll.
 
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Does she hunt? If so, well, take her along. Extra cost...maybe two beers...$1 in gas and $5 in food.

It'll show you if she likes you, that'll be for sure.
 
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guys........i had a girl from myspace come over my house with her friend upon the 1st time seeing me, we all got tipsy and had a 3some (i got a thread about it).......we barely had any rapport established, except for we thought we were hot, and we talked on the phone for 10 minutes.

Tell your girl to come over, chill, watch a movie, and have a few drinks. SIMPLE
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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skip2mylou781 said:
guys........i had a girl from myspace come over my house with her friend upon the 1st time seeing me, we all got tipsy and had a 3some (i got a thread about it).......we barely had any rapport established, except for we thought we were hot, and we talked on the phone for 10 minutes.

Tell your girl to come over, chill, watch a movie, and have a few drinks. SIMPLE
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you go out with stupid 18 year olds who have no clue how to protect themselves.
 
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