"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Asking her over on the first date

Colinski282

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B/w work an school, i barely have anytime to go on a date other than after work. My weekends are booked the next two weekend due to the opening of hunting season. I was gonna ask her to come sit on her ass with me at my place after work. Would that be too forward for a first date?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Unless you've established mad mutual rapport with the woman, slow your roll.
 

Docs

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Does she hunt? If so, well, take her along. Extra cost...maybe two beers...$1 in gas and $5 in food.

It'll show you if she likes you, that'll be for sure.
 

skip2mylou781

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guys........i had a girl from myspace come over my house with her friend upon the 1st time seeing me, we all got tipsy and had a 3some (i got a thread about it).......we barely had any rapport established, except for we thought we were hot, and we talked on the phone for 10 minutes.

Tell your girl to come over, chill, watch a movie, and have a few drinks. SIMPLE
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mrRuckus

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skip2mylou781 said:
guys........i had a girl from myspace come over my house with her friend upon the 1st time seeing me, we all got tipsy and had a 3some (i got a thread about it).......we barely had any rapport established, except for we thought we were hot, and we talked on the phone for 10 minutes.

Tell your girl to come over, chill, watch a movie, and have a few drinks. SIMPLE
you go out with stupid 18 year olds who have no clue how to protect themselves.
 
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