"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Asking her over on the first date

Colinski282

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B/w work an school, i barely have anytime to go on a date other than after work. My weekends are booked the next two weekend due to the opening of hunting season. I was gonna ask her to come sit on her ass with me at my place after work. Would that be too forward for a first date?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Unless you've established mad mutual rapport with the woman, slow your roll.
 

Docs

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Does she hunt? If so, well, take her along. Extra cost...maybe two beers...$1 in gas and $5 in food.

It'll show you if she likes you, that'll be for sure.
 

skip2mylou781

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guys........i had a girl from myspace come over my house with her friend upon the 1st time seeing me, we all got tipsy and had a 3some (i got a thread about it).......we barely had any rapport established, except for we thought we were hot, and we talked on the phone for 10 minutes.

Tell your girl to come over, chill, watch a movie, and have a few drinks. SIMPLE
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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skip2mylou781 said:
guys........i had a girl from myspace come over my house with her friend upon the 1st time seeing me, we all got tipsy and had a 3some (i got a thread about it).......we barely had any rapport established, except for we thought we were hot, and we talked on the phone for 10 minutes.

Tell your girl to come over, chill, watch a movie, and have a few drinks. SIMPLE
you go out with stupid 18 year olds who have no clue how to protect themselves.
 
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