"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asking girls out that you will have to see even if they say no?

Aspiring_DJ

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So what do you guys suggest about asking girls out that are either in your class or in your dorm.( im in college) The reason why I ask is because if they say no then you get to be that guy for the rest of the semester and if she says yes and you have her wanting you every second you can't avoid her because you will have to see her anyway. Any ideas?

Edit: after thinking about this I think you guys are going to tell me that looking at it like this is AFC.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I thought the same way you did when I first started college. But let me tell you my experience, if you play it cool then they you can still be cool with them. But if you keep thinking that you're 'that guy' then it will show and make you seem creepy.
 

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Monster said:
I thought the same way you did when I first started college. But let me tell you my experience, if you play it cool then they you can still be cool with them. But if you keep thinking that you're 'that guy' then it will show and make you seem creepy.
So should i go ahead and ask them out? Obviously I can only pick a certain few b/c then everyone will know that i ask everyone out. But the way you put it I may get put in the LJBF zone.
 

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things will only be ackward if YOU MAKE them ackward, be cool, and everything will be cool
 

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and why are you even thinking about a girl saying no anyway? just assume she'll say yes and you won't have to worry!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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