"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Asking girls out that you will have to see even if they say no?

Aspiring_DJ

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So what do you guys suggest about asking girls out that are either in your class or in your dorm.( im in college) The reason why I ask is because if they say no then you get to be that guy for the rest of the semester and if she says yes and you have her wanting you every second you can't avoid her because you will have to see her anyway. Any ideas?

Edit: after thinking about this I think you guys are going to tell me that looking at it like this is AFC.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I thought the same way you did when I first started college. But let me tell you my experience, if you play it cool then they you can still be cool with them. But if you keep thinking that you're 'that guy' then it will show and make you seem creepy.
 

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Monster said:
I thought the same way you did when I first started college. But let me tell you my experience, if you play it cool then they you can still be cool with them. But if you keep thinking that you're 'that guy' then it will show and make you seem creepy.
So should i go ahead and ask them out? Obviously I can only pick a certain few b/c then everyone will know that i ask everyone out. But the way you put it I may get put in the LJBF zone.
 

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things will only be ackward if YOU MAKE them ackward, be cool, and everything will be cool
 

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and why are you even thinking about a girl saying no anyway? just assume she'll say yes and you won't have to worry!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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