"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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asking girl out over MSN?

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Over the past week I've been chatting away to a girl who is at the same University campus as me. I've never seen her, but she claims that she's seen me & recognises me. She recognised my profile on the Faceparty website. (I put a profile up there with a bunch of my mates for a laugh)

Anyway, she started talking to me one day last week on MSN and we've been talking away to each other each day since, nothing big, just small chat bout uni etc.

The thing is she keeps dropping the fact that she's single in the conversation quite a lot I've noticed.

The other thing is, I swore to myself I'd never ask a girl out over the Internet, but I'm kinda thinking about asking this girl if she fancies meeting up for a drink, rather than talk online like idiots all the time.

Just wanting to know what is the opinions of you's guys, am I just behind the times, is internet dating a social commodity now or is it still in the minority?

Dave
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Be wary, but you really don't have much to lose by going on a date with her. Maybe you will find out she is HB9/10 or maybe you will find out she is a 1. At least you gave it a shot.

Since you asked, I think meeting people on the internet is definately rising in popularity.
 
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Ask for her number bro, and call her up. MSN is $hit.
 
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You: Want to go out?
Her: NO.
You: (Acts sad) O..ok... u...um... dont worry... i won't...i won't feel bad


Well I know (I could trust you right) you wouldn't do that on MSN but I'm just giving a point that you shouldn't ask her out on MSN or AIM or anywhere besides phone or face-to-face.
 
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Re:

to the guy that was asking what she looks like, shes an 8 I'd say, extremely attractive.

The thing is, isn't asking for a chicks number on MSN kinda creepy?, I dunno how I'd feel if some random girl came on and asked me if I'd give her my number!

but you's are right, I've got nothing to lose , so I'll prob just go right ahead and ask her anyway

will report back!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't worry about it, stop farting around on MSN and get her number. She won't think it's creepy since you have built rapport with her - women find this kind of thing exciting and mysterious.
 
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