"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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asking girl out over MSN?

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Over the past week I've been chatting away to a girl who is at the same University campus as me. I've never seen her, but she claims that she's seen me & recognises me. She recognised my profile on the Faceparty website. (I put a profile up there with a bunch of my mates for a laugh)

Anyway, she started talking to me one day last week on MSN and we've been talking away to each other each day since, nothing big, just small chat bout uni etc.

The thing is she keeps dropping the fact that she's single in the conversation quite a lot I've noticed.

The other thing is, I swore to myself I'd never ask a girl out over the Internet, but I'm kinda thinking about asking this girl if she fancies meeting up for a drink, rather than talk online like idiots all the time.

Just wanting to know what is the opinions of you's guys, am I just behind the times, is internet dating a social commodity now or is it still in the minority?

Dave
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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taqueso

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Be wary, but you really don't have much to lose by going on a date with her. Maybe you will find out she is HB9/10 or maybe you will find out she is a 1. At least you gave it a shot.

Since you asked, I think meeting people on the internet is definately rising in popularity.
 

Engetsu

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Ask for her number bro, and call her up. MSN is $hit.
 

tactic

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You: Want to go out?
Her: NO.
You: (Acts sad) O..ok... u...um... dont worry... i won't...i won't feel bad


Well I know (I could trust you right) you wouldn't do that on MSN but I'm just giving a point that you shouldn't ask her out on MSN or AIM or anywhere besides phone or face-to-face.
 

Dave111

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Re:

to the guy that was asking what she looks like, shes an 8 I'd say, extremely attractive.

The thing is, isn't asking for a chicks number on MSN kinda creepy?, I dunno how I'd feel if some random girl came on and asked me if I'd give her my number!

but you's are right, I've got nothing to lose , so I'll prob just go right ahead and ask her anyway

will report back!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Austin Allegro

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Don't worry about it, stop farting around on MSN and get her number. She won't think it's creepy since you have built rapport with her - women find this kind of thing exciting and mysterious.
 
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