"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Asking for lunch after school/work..bad idea?

gimmeyofonenumba

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Im wondering, is it a bad idea to ask out a classmate to accompany you to lunch , or maybe a co-worker for a smoothies after work or something? I like theese, because they are more chill and not all high pressure like a date at night. Honestly, i think classmate/co worker relationships need to transition to the night date. I already got something good going with a classmate, but i cant possibly see myself asking her out on fri/sat nite.

Thats why i like the action date, but will the chicks be pissed that they dont have the oppurtunity to dress up and look sexy?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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As long as you don't make the date seem like an interview, the chick will usually find whatever kind of date you are on to be fun.
 

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haha you got that email from DD didn you? i liked that idea because i never try to ask the same questions people are always asking.
 

SparkleMotion

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Maybe, I haven't been on DD's mailing list for a while though. A lot of stuff I've just memorized/incorporated into my 'game', so I don't really remember exactly what came from where.
 
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