"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Asking for lunch after school/work..bad idea?

gimmeyofonenumba

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Im wondering, is it a bad idea to ask out a classmate to accompany you to lunch , or maybe a co-worker for a smoothies after work or something? I like theese, because they are more chill and not all high pressure like a date at night. Honestly, i think classmate/co worker relationships need to transition to the night date. I already got something good going with a classmate, but i cant possibly see myself asking her out on fri/sat nite.

Thats why i like the action date, but will the chicks be pissed that they dont have the oppurtunity to dress up and look sexy?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SparkleMotion

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As long as you don't make the date seem like an interview, the chick will usually find whatever kind of date you are on to be fun.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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haha you got that email from DD didn you? i liked that idea because i never try to ask the same questions people are always asking.
 

SparkleMotion

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Maybe, I haven't been on DD's mailing list for a while though. A lot of stuff I've just memorized/incorporated into my 'game', so I don't really remember exactly what came from where.
 
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