"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asking for lunch after school/work..bad idea?

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Im wondering, is it a bad idea to ask out a classmate to accompany you to lunch , or maybe a co-worker for a smoothies after work or something? I like theese, because they are more chill and not all high pressure like a date at night. Honestly, i think classmate/co worker relationships need to transition to the night date. I already got something good going with a classmate, but i cant possibly see myself asking her out on fri/sat nite.

Thats why i like the action date, but will the chicks be pissed that they dont have the oppurtunity to dress up and look sexy?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As long as you don't make the date seem like an interview, the chick will usually find whatever kind of date you are on to be fun.
 
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haha you got that email from DD didn you? i liked that idea because i never try to ask the same questions people are always asking.
 
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Maybe, I haven't been on DD's mailing list for a while though. A lot of stuff I've just memorized/incorporated into my 'game', so I don't really remember exactly what came from where.
 
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