Does saying "can i have your number" really effect women in a huge way. I am wondering because i was talking with this girl (first approach) after she was giving me very good signals of interest and things were very good until i droped the question. She simply said "i will talk with you later" and we parted ways. I have a really hard time believing that just one damn line makes you look bad or needy.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yea it is hard to believe but for the most part if you ask a hb this question most of the time unless she is really into you or wants to play you fool, she will not give it out. I mean think about it how many times do you think she is asked this by other guys on a weekly/monthly basis probably quite a few times. So its just coming up with a clever different approach to getting her contact information than rather to just blatently ask for it out of the blue. :nono: :kick:
paraguayandj
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Yeah you have to find a situation to ask for her number. If you really click with her and both of you agree that you should see each other again, then asking her number shouldn't be a problem. David Deangelo suggest pretinding to walk away then turn around and asking her, well that might work too it all depends on the girl
white cloud 8
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Begin with the end in mind, plot out how you want it to turn out. Just be firm and upfront about it, they already know what you want so there is no use in beating around the bush, just say it. You're not asking them a question, you want to make a statement e.g. "We should get together on X at X, whats your number?".
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yeah it does effect girls in a huge way. Instead of asking for her number, you should suggest that she gives it to you (EX. You should give me you number so we can chill sometime). So dont ask, suggest.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
brenbaus
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asking for number = AFC.
Telling her to give you her number is the way to go!
Telling her to give you her number is the way to go!
So do any of you think there is a chance of a rebound from something like this. I see this girl around so is it a good idea to approach her and ask for a straight answer, no bull****, or maybe act like nothing happened and keep trying to get to know her more. Wouldnt an AFC just give up the first time?