"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Asking Family for Help:

calimartin

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Question: do you think its good to ask female members of your family for advice on women (i.e. what to wear, etc.)? I feel that sisters / mothers / cousins will always have this idea as that little weiner and would not know what's best / good for you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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calimartin said:
Question: do you think its good to ask female members of your family for advice on women (i.e. what to wear, etc.)? I feel that sisters / mothers / cousins will always have this idea as that little weiner and would not know what's best / good for you.
Nope, I wouldn't ask family for help. They will want to know how it went and so on,basically they will try to stay in your business. That's what we are here for. Find a good buddy to seek help,make sure he has expierence though.
 

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I disagree.

I think asking sisters/cousins on what to wear would be a good idea. As for love advice, no. Keep the game to yourself, but who says you can't get help with your wardrobe?

-LC
 

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My Dad's been a good advocate on advice with girls. Basically, don't get married until you are damn sure she's the one, and have fun while you're waiting.
 

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Never ask mom for help!!!!

Your mom will try to make you the best man you could be for a wife!!

Sisters are good help with certain things, but just keep in mind that most of the time they are going to say the things that sound right. Hardly ever will a woman tell the facts, 'cause they are subconcious. They honestly believe them, but subconciously there wrong.

Safe questions for sisters and cousins are Physical traits, Personality, but not specifics.

Again Never ask mom... Some exceptions do excist but treat acordingly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thanks guys -- also what I am thinking is that getting help from someone from the opposite sex but with the same gene pool will not give sound advice, as we are all looking for the most diverse genes to "mingle" with.
 

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Ask gay men.
 

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don't ask woman, related or not, for dating advice, unless you want more afc bullSh!t.

I used to ask women for advice, but its all wrong. They will tell you what woman want. Not what guys should give, theres a huge difference.
 
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