Asking Family for Help:

[calimartin]

Question: do you think its good to ask female members of your family for advice on women (i.e. what to wear, etc.)? I feel that sisters / mothers / cousins will always have this idea as that little weiner and would not know what's best / good for you.

 

[blinkwatt]

Question: do you think its good to ask female members of your family for advice on women (i.e. what to wear, etc.)? I feel that sisters / mothers / cousins will always have this idea as that little weiner and would not know what's best / good for you.

Nope, I wouldn't ask family for help. They will want to know how it went and so on,basically they will try to stay in your business. That's what we are here for. Find a good buddy to seek help,make sure he has expierence though.

 

[Local Celebrity]

I disagree.

I think asking sisters/cousins on what to wear would be a good idea. As for love advice, no. Keep the game to yourself, but who says you can't get help with your wardrobe?

-LC

 

[Docs]

My Dad's been a good advocate on advice with girls. Basically, don't get married until you are damn sure she's the one, and have fun while you're waiting.

 

[zerocelcius]

Never ask mom for help!!!!

Your mom will try to make you the best man you could be for a wife!!

Sisters are good help with certain things, but just keep in mind that most of the time they are going to say the things that sound right. Hardly ever will a woman tell the facts, 'cause they are subconcious. They honestly believe them, but subconciously there wrong.

Safe questions for sisters and cousins are Physical traits, Personality, but not specifics.

Again Never ask mom... Some exceptions do excist but treat acordingly.

 

[calimartin]

Thanks guys -- also what I am thinking is that getting help from someone from the opposite sex but with the same gene pool will not give sound advice, as we are all looking for the most diverse genes to "mingle" with.

 

[SamePendo]

Ask gay men.

 

[rocky_mtn]

don't ask woman, related or not, for dating advice, unless you want more afc bullSh!t.

I used to ask women for advice, but its all wrong. They will tell you what woman want. Not what guys should give, theres a huge difference.