"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Asking a girl you just met out

mustfirstregister

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I called this girl i met on Friday. she remembers who I'm and basically, I asked if she has time tomorrow after 5:30pm she says she does but told me to call her back tomorrow at 4:00pm to confirm. I said to her I can't call her because when I'm at work can't call out. I asked her to give me a call instead. She agrees.

What do you guys think about this? she will flake or she will call me tomorrow?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mustfirstregister said:
I called this girl i met on Friday. she remembers who I'm and basically, I asked if she has time tomorrow after 5:30pm she says she does but told me to call her back tomorrow at 4:00pm to confirm. I said to her I can't call her because when I'm at work can't call out. I asked her to give me a call instead. She agrees.

What do you guys think about this? she will flake or she will call me tomorrow?
Well just from reading this,I get the "feeling" that she may flake,but maybe that's just because I've seen this same type scenario on here like a thousand times over where the girl didn't call.


So I'll try to shake that feeling and look at this situation without any bias.

You think you could tell us (to the best you can) what the conversation was between you two? When you called her and she answered the phone,did you go straight into the talk about you two possibly seeing each other,or did you lead with something else first,then transition into the date talk?


Also,how long did the conversation last?

It's not really a good idea to put yourself in a position of waiting to hear from a girl,then that's where you are.


She may not call,but that doesn't mean she has no interest. You'll just need to be a bit more assertive to get her emotionally involved.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mustfirstregister said:
OK, she didn't call. What is the next step?
Call her 15 times begging for attention, and tell her how deeply you love her. :kick:
 

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Brekke are you serious? you should not be in this forum then.

yea, next her. But I think I will give her one more chance and call her once more tomorrow or Saturday, the reason being is because she offered her number to me and not me asking for the number.
 

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She might be having second thoughts because of your age. There are lots of young bucks in their 60s who are vying for her attention.
 

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mustfirstregister said:
Brekke are you serious? you should not be in this forum then.

yea, next her. But I think I will give her one more chance and call her once more tomorrow or Saturday, the reason being is because she offered her number to me and not me asking for the number.

someone failed at sarcasm
 
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